Sometimes people come into your life and you know right away that they were meant to be there, to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson, or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to become.
You never know who these people may be (possibly your roommate, neighbour, co-worker, long-lost friend, lover, or even a complete stranger)..
But when you lock eyes with them, you know at that very moment that they will affect your life in some profound way.
And sometimes things happen to you that may seem horrible, painful, and unfair at first, but in reflection you find that without overcoming those obstacles you would have never realized your potential, strength, willpower, or heart.
Everything happens for a reason. Nothing happens by chance or by means of luck.
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness, and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul. Without these small tests, whatever they may be, life would be like a smoothly paved, straight, flat road to nowhere. It would be safe and comfortable, but dull and utterly pointless.
The people you meet who affect your life, and the success 'n downfalls you experience help to create who you become. Even the bad experiences can be learned from. In fact, they are probably the most poignant and important ones.
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart, forgive them, for they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious when you open your heart. If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, not only because they love you, but because in a way, they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.
Make every day count !!!
Appreciate every moment and take from those moments everything that you possibly can for you may never be able to experience it again.
Talk to people that you have never talked to before, and actually listen.
Let yourself fall in love, break free, and set your sights high.
Hold your head up because you have every right to.
Tell yourself you are a great individual and believe in yourself, for if you don’t believe in yourself, it will be hard for others to believe in you.
You can make of your life anything you wish... !!!
Create your own life then go out and live it with absolutely no regrets......!!! :)
If you are SINGLE and reading this Post right now, just know you’re not alone.
I know what you’re going through and how you’re feeling.
You make yourself busy with work, studies… But it always get lonely at night.
You get bored. No one to call on you, no one to send you a Good-Night love message…
You then end up getting addicted to your TV, to your laptop, to your phone and Facebook.
When you get exhausted you go to your cozy bed and that is where you start recalling the best moments you’ve ever had in love with that person you loved so much with all your heart.. but when he/she is no more in your life.
On weekends you get to be more bored..
Because you have some free time but no one special to hang out with.
Then there.. these friends of yours.. who always invite you on parties to give them company and for you to have some fun... But you tend to feel out of place when you get there.
You feel left out when your friends are having fun with their partners.
Then you start pondering about many things.
Many thoughts and questions start playing in your heart.
You start hating yourself…
But I am telling you my friend, God is watching you and He’s in full control of your life.
You are single for a special reason that you are yet to find out.
GOD HAS SOMEONE SPECIAL FOR YOU IN STOCK.
So let your enemies say that you were cursed and bewitched..
But God will perform miracles in your life and they’ll be astonished.
So “don’t lose hope, stay strong, focused, hardworking, keep trusting and be preparing yourself to receive that person that God is soon gonna send to you.....! :)) :)) :))
How many of us are in a relationship?
Maybe 90% And how many of us are sure of getting married and having a future?
Maybe 5% !
The reason is not because we don't love our partners !
The reason is because our parents might not approve of it, or because of further studies leading to long distance relationships, it might end !
Why are we so much concerned about the future ?
Did u think before falling in love?
No, right ?
It happened because it was written in your destiny !
Now the 'marriage' factor is not a topic of concern now..
Do not end your relationship b'coz of this !
You never know what would happen next !
Who knows.. your parents would gladly approve?
Or who knows.. they would give up and accept you both.. just because they consider your happiness the only priority?
Many of us screw their current status thinking about the future !
It's not the right time to get paranoid !
I would not say that stop planning about getting married and living together.
Obviously everyone has plans.
But, do not get so immersed in it, that it would be difficult for you if things do not turn out the way you had planned or expected.
Live in the present !
Love your partner to the core, b'coz even if you will not be together in the near future, you would never
regret, b'coz you would have enough memories to have a smile on your face forever!
Stop worrying about the thing that's going to happen in the future !
B'coz GOD has everything planned ! He would do things that would lead to your happiness and for your best !
Trust him/her ! Stay blessed ! :) :) :)
