LOVE... ???

LOVE is such a great feeling we all need to experience in this world. 

It feels so good.. when you have someone.. 
who truly loves you, 
who cares about you,
who never wants to hurt you, 
who is afraid to lose you, 
who never makes you sad, 
who never takes a day without finding out how you are doing... 
BUT...
It HURTS a lot....
When you find out that the person you call your sweetheart has another girl or guy...! :'(

It hurts.. when you find out that your partner tells that other person the same words he tells you. 
It deeply pains.. when you find out that your partner is doing the same special things s/he does for you for someone else. 
It hurts.. when you find out that your partner would make the same promises s/he made to you to somebody else. 
It hurts.. when you find out that your partner brings another girl to his Favorite Place to lie where you always lay. 
It hurts.. when you find out that your partner would call another girl/guy the same sweet names s/he would call you. 
It really hurts.. when you find out that you are not the only girl that your partner takes out on dates. 
It pains.. when you find out that you are not the only person that your partner buys gifts for. 
It pains a lot.. when you find out that you are not the only person that your partner hugs, kisses and gets personal with. 
It pains a lot.. when you find out that you are not the only person that your partner tells that s/he loves. 
It deeply hurts.. when you find out that your partner never replies your messages but makes sure she replies those other messages from another guy/girl. 
It pains.. when you find out that your partner can’t save his credit to call on you but makes sure he calls the other babe, he claims that they are “just friends”. 
It hurts.. when you find out that your partner spend some precious time with other guys or girls in your absence. 

It HURTS a lot... But I Wonder....!!!  ( ._.)

Why doing all that to someone.. you know very well.. that S/He loves you? 
Why hurting that innocent person who cares about you? 
Why doing all that to someone who is always there for you? 
Why doing all those dirty things behind your partner’s back? 
Why not being faithful? 
Why not being satisfied with what God has given you? 
If you feel like the person you are with is not enough for you then stop wasting his time, her energy, his dime… and go in for that other person that you feel is right for you. 

CEASE HURTING AND USING SOMEONE FOR YOUR OWN BENEFIT AND SATISFACTION.

You may be doing it for fun or under peer pressure but God is not happy with it. 

Think about it.....! (^_^)

EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON !!!

Sometimes people come into your life and you know right away that they were meant to be there, to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson, or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to become.
You never know who these people may be (possibly your roommate, neighbour, co-worker, long-lost friend, lover, or even a complete stranger)..
But when you lock eyes with them, you know at that very moment that they will affect your life in some profound way.
And sometimes things happen to you that may seem horrible, painful, and unfair at first, but in reflection you find that without overcoming those obstacles you would have never realized your potential, strength, willpower, or heart.

Everything happens for a reason. Nothing happens by chance or by means of luck. 
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness, and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul. Without these small tests, whatever they may be, life would be like a smoothly paved, straight, flat road to nowhere. It would be safe and comfortable, but dull and utterly pointless.

The people you meet who affect your life, and the success 'n downfalls you experience help to create who you become. Even the bad experiences can be learned from. In fact, they are probably the most poignant and important ones. 
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart, forgive them, for they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious when you open your heart. If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, not only because they love you, but because in a way, they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.

Make every day count !!!
Appreciate every moment and take from those moments everything that you possibly can for you may never be able to experience it again. 
Talk to people that you have never talked to before, and actually listen. 
Let yourself fall in love, break free, and set your sights high. 
Hold your head up because you have every right to. 
Tell yourself you are a great individual and believe in yourself, for if you don’t believe in yourself, it will be hard for others to believe in you. 
You can make of your life anything you wish... !!! 
Create your own life then go out and live it with absolutely no regrets......!!! :)

CHEER UP SINGLES !!!

If you are SINGLE and reading this Post right now, just know you’re not alone. 
I know what you’re going through and how you’re feeling. 
You make yourself busy with work, studies… But it always get lonely at night. 
You get bored. No one to call on you, no one to send you a Good-Night love message… 
You then end up getting addicted to your TV, to your laptop, to your phone and Facebook. 
When you get exhausted you go to your cozy bed and that is where you start recalling the best moments you’ve ever had in love with that person you loved so much with all your heart.. but when he/she is no more in your life. On weekends you get to be more bored.. Because you have some free time but no one special to hang out with. 
Then there.. these friends of yours.. who always invite you on parties to give them company and for you to have some fun... But you tend to feel out of place when you get there. 
You feel left out when your friends are having fun with their partners. 
Then you start pondering about many things. 
Many thoughts and questions start playing in your heart.
You start hating yourself…
But I am telling you my friend, God is watching you and He’s in full control of your life.
You are single for a special reason that you are yet to find out. 
GOD HAS SOMEONE SPECIAL FOR YOU IN STOCK. 
So let your enemies say that you were cursed and bewitched..
But God will perform miracles in your life and they’ll be astonished. So “don’t lose hope, stay strong, focused, hardworking, keep trusting and be preparing yourself to receive that person that God is soon gonna send to you.....! :)) :)) :))

* THE FUTURE *

How many of us are in a relationship? 
Maybe 90% And how many of us are sure of getting married and having a future?
Maybe 5% ! The reason is not because we don't love our partners ! 
The reason is because our parents might not approve of it, or because of further studies leading to long distance relationships, it might end ! Why are we so much concerned about the future ?
Did u think before falling in love? 
No, right ? 
It happened because it was written in your destiny ! 
Now the 'marriage' factor is not a topic of concern now..
Do not end your relationship b'coz of this ! 
You never know what would happen next ! 
Who knows.. your parents would gladly approve? Or who knows.. they would give up and accept you both.. just because they consider your happiness the only priority? Many of us screw their current status thinking about the future ! It's not the right time to get paranoid ! I would not say that stop planning about getting married and living together.
Obviously everyone has plans.
But, do not get so immersed in it, that it would be difficult for you if things do not turn out the way you had planned or expected. Live in the present ! 
Love your partner to the core, b'coz even if you will not be together in the near future, you would never regret, b'coz you would have enough memories to have a smile on your face forever! Stop worrying about the thing that's going to happen in the future !
B'coz GOD has everything planned ! He would do things that would lead to your happiness and for your best ! Trust him/her ! Stay blessed ! :) :) :)

SHE IS THE KIND OF GIRL...!!!

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 Hello guyz... :))
I know... this time I am too late.... :-P as I could not post anything b'coz of my busy schedule.... but don't worry... I am Back again......! ;-)
So....
Once Again....Let me tell you people.. Something about MYSELF... Archie.... 'n my dream boy... my would be life partner... Someone Very SPECIAL.... ! :-P ;-) 

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   She is the kind of girl who is always smiling and loves to laugh.If yo are falling down, she will be right there to pick you up... ! ;-) :)She is the one that always says sorry, even if it's not her fault. 
Even if  she is feeling like the scum of the earth, she will never let you know.This is the girl who is afraid of love, because she has already lost so much.

I’m the kind of girl who spends hours and hours writing poems and reading books, hanging out with friends in
shopping malls rather than going to parties and discos. 
But that doesn’t mean I am boring and out dated. It just means I have my own priorities. 
I live a simple life, my hair and clothes are mostly simple-sober but that doesn’t mean I have no sense of dressing up. 
It’s just that I have no reason to make that extra effort to look good or beg for attention because my beauty radiates from inside. I still sleep with my teddy bear because the kid in me is still alive and I can’t let my childhood memories go so easily.
Sad love songs make me cry and I laugh hard at stupid jokes but that doesn’t mean I am dumb. 
It simply means I am sensitive.
I don’t make extra efforts to impress anyone because I am what I am.
Maybe it’s hard to define me because I am complicated but I am exclusive. 
I am the kind of girl who is incredibly weird but I can motivate others even when I am sad inside. 
I can be your best buddy and stick by your side no matter what comes up in life… :)


I am the kind of girl who doesn’t wear her heart on her sleeve.
I am the kind of girl who doesn’t get carried away by a man with macho looks..
'n who is surrounded by girls all the time.
I am born for someone special... ;-) 
I am born for that one in a million kind of a man... 
who can charm me with just one soulful look.
Someone who can look deep into my eyes..
'n say that I am the girl with whom he wants to spend the rest of his life. 
Someone who can hold my hand 'n say that he will never give up on me..
No matter what comes up in our life. 
He will be the man who will respect me for my ethics and values and love me soulfully. 
He will be the one who is the other half of me and who will keep me close to the heart even through sticks and shivers when I am old. 
My dream is yet to come true and I am not disheartened..
because I know that one day I will mean the world to someone.
Someone who is just mine. He will be the one who deserves me. 
I am waiting because I know that I deserve the best. 
I want love that lasts a lifetime…! :)
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I am a girl of substance. 
I might look fragile in appearance.. but don’t try to break my heart. 
I believe in the magic of love.. but don’t try and play pranks on me. 
I love your soul deeply.. but don’t try to rip my soul apart by cheating on me. 
Always remember that if I love you without limitations, I am also strong enough to let you go if you betray me. 
I will never be a victim.. but a survivor because I will emerge to be stronger than my suffering… !

And Finally...

HereZ a message for my would be life partner... for SOMEONE SPECIAL... ;-) :-))

I am just an ordinary and simple girl who just dream of a man who would come and change my life. 
Since the day you would walk into my life.. my life would have change forever..
Because you would made my life so extraordinary and special with your soulful love. 
You would charm me with your simplicity and stole my heart with your down to earth personality. 
I would adore you for every single thing you would do for me.. nd for understanding me. 
I would be so very madly, deeply, crazily and irrevocably in love with you for your sheer awesomeness. 
You would know how to cheer me up on those not so happening days. 
You would encourage me to do things when I would give up on them. 
You would help me to overcome my fears. 
You would cope up with my mood swings and my erratic behavior with all your maturity.
Only my overwhelmed heart would know how much I would treasure your love. 
You would have awakened me by touching the deepest chords of my heart. 
That day I would feel like the luckiest woman in the world..
Because I would have found my dream man. 
I would wish to grow old with you and spend the rest of my life with you....! ;-) :) :) :)

I want to be the smile, the first thought, the long drive, the short walk, the last voice, the random call, the sweet dream, the perfect kiss, the comfort hug, the sparkle in your eye. I want to be everything you need, or simply just what you want. I just want to be yours... only yours.....! ;-) :) :) :)

YOU DESERVE BETTER !

No matter how bad it hurts or how bad you feel,
it's time to stop thinking about that person who played with your feelings,
who took your love for granted,
who never appreciated your care,
who wasn’t contented with what you could give him or her.

You can't stay at that hurtful place anymore.
You can't keep shedding tears over someone..
who doesn't deserve the love you gave.
You can't keep feeling sorry for yourself..
And thinking if only you did more.
You can't make them want the relationship..
Because..
if they wanted they wouldn’t have let go of you.
You DESERVE BETTER now.
You deserve.. someone who appreciates all the good qualities that you offer..
You deserve.. someone who won’t play with your delicate heart 'n feelings..
You deserve.. someone who won’t be all about knowing your physic..
You deserve.. someone who will be serious with you..
And who will be having the fear of hurting you & losing you.

Just like a cut on your hand.. will take time to heal,
Your broken heart needs time to heal as well.
Many people before you, who thought they couldn't make it,
have survived.. And made it.
Just like they made it, you will make it too.
Be strong and try to move on now.
That’s not the end of your life.
You will get over that pain you’re having right now..
And one day you’ll be HAPPY AGAIN.....!!!! :) :) :)

DEEPEST THOUGHTS TO SHARE...!

You have to get hurt. That’s how you learn. The strongest people out there, the ones who laugh the hardest with a genuine smile, those are the people who have fought the toughest battles. Because they’ve decided that they’re not going to let anything hold them down, they’re showing the world who's the boss.

No one will create your life or give you the opportunity you need.

It's up to you 'n me to go and make it happen.

Don't wait on your parents, your colleagues, your spouse, your government.

It is your life, your time and it will be your next step that will define your tomorrow.

A heartbreak is a blessing from God. It’s just His way of letting you realize He saved you from the wrong one.

Lessons come in all shapes and sizes. Some are more painful than others. Some make us laugh while others make us cry or leave us scratching our head. However lessons are part of us growing up and expanding ourselves.

Don’t fear the lesson….it came to you to make you better.

This is how it looks to one when things go wrong…when we don’t have the answers, when everything seems to be coming down on us.

This is how it looks when we have no one to speak to, nowhere to go.

This is how it looks when we lose our inner light and feel alone.

This is how it looks when we fail to get clear, think, see, hear and feel….. when we allow ourselves to give in to the pain or to the frustration...

This is how it looks when we forget that there is a greater force with us all the time…..some call it Universe, I call it GOD.

There is always a crack of light in our darkness, we just have to calm our mind, open our eyes and we will find it.

When we begin our journey to a better version of who we are…sometimes we expect our past issues, problems to just go away. We expect this new found purpose to make it all go away. Yet we fail to see one thing that is crucial.

When we first begin this journey we take baby steps and that includes on how we think as well. We are beginning to explore a new way of thinking, a new way of seeing our situation.

Therefore we come in with hope yet our faith muscle is not fully developed. We come in with determination, yet our bounce back muscle is not fully developed. These are things we have to work on….these are tools that we will need on this journey. These are the tools that will help us to cope with the unfinished business we drag from our past. These are the muscles that will carry us through when nobody else believes in our cause.

If you are in this journey…..

Understand that it might take some time…..how much time?

Well that depends to the individual, how fast we personally believe, how fast we personally understand, how fast we personally become accountable and how fast we commit to change.

How much time it will take is entirely up to you.

Your journey is a life journey, therefore equip yourself with the right tools and mindset and head out to that better version of you.

Don't look outside yourself... to feel complete. You were given all you need to be the best version of you...
So find all you need within yourself.
The only thing you need from the outside is love and acceptance.

If you are holding on the past or it just keeps on popping up, it's time for you to remove it.......
Holding on to pain does nothing good to you..

If your focus is to change those things/people around you, you will never succeed.
If you focus on changing yourself, you will become the best version of you and might inspire others to do the same.

Today is a brand new day, full of opportunity for you. What will you do with this new day?
Will you take a chance and go after your dreams or will you sit it out and wait for a better
day?

It's wonderful to connect with people that inspire us.
However let's not wait around for them.....instead get clear on who you are, what you want, where you are going and get ready to inspire yourself.... :)

We all make mistakes, yet I prefer to make my own mistakes and own up to them. I am no longer interested in being pulled down with mistakes or bad judgment from others. If I want to say NO, I will say NO. If I want to say YES, I will say YES...
We have one life….let’s choose to live it to the fullest, if we screw up we will fix it and learn from those mistakes, yet let’s make sure we live and enjoy our lives... :)

Those roadblocks, challenges, disspointments are not a plan from the Universe trying to hold you back, those are just part of the training sessions, lessons you need to get ready.

The deepest meaning of life is nothing but to have within you.. the capacity to give unconditional love and affection to invoke the sense of one-ness. A helping hand, a loving thought or just a kind word has the immense capacity to spark hope into someone’s life in ways you can never imagine. 
It is all about having the vivacity and brilliance in your personality to radiate the exuberance of love to exhilarate the life of someone.. who is feeling hopeless, lonely or shattered…!

This is so true I found my passion and purpose approx a year ago. It changed my life. What is your calling in life?
What is your purpose? Have you found it yet? You will get clarity through personal development, following your heart, trying something new or through a break-through in life.

What we do right now will impact our future. With that note,
I am working on organizing my thoughts, getting clear on...
what I want in this new phase of my life and setting up time lines to hold myself accountable.
We are half way through March yet now is the time to turn it all around and gain momentum.
This is MY TIME and this is UR TIME.....it all depends on US... what we do next.

God causes things to happen at exactly the right time! Your job is not to figure out, but to make up your mind that you won’t give up until you cross the finish line and are living in the radical, outrageous blessings of God! The more you trust the God and keep your eyes focused on Him, the more life you’ll have. Trusting God brings life. Believing brings rest. So stop trying to figure everything out, and let God be God  in your life.....! :)

I... ME... Just Me....!

I’m a Simple Girl....
I love being called pretty, but I’ll never believe it.
I’m not always right, but hate admitting I’m wrong.
I’m almost always Smiling, but it’s not always real.
I can be read like an open book, but hide so much pain.
I work hard at things, but don’t always get what I deserve.
I love my close ones.. so much, but don’t have anyone who really
love me as I do...!
I always make people happy, but never take a hand to wipe my tears.
I do try to make some difference, but things not always in my favour.
I do try to forget the bad time, but some pains would always be with me.. till my last breathe.
I don’t want to loose anyone, but time has taken the one.. who was "MOST SPECIAL" to me... ! (T_T)

LOVE CAN'T BE DEFINED...!

Hey.. Hii... Guyz...  :)

Before you grow up, you must fall in Love 3 times....

There's always going to be 3 different guys in your life :

Guy #1:  Your BEST FRIEND...!

Once.. you must fall in love with your best friend, ruining your friendship forever. 

This will teach you.. who are your true friends..

And..

The fine line between friendship and more.
 

Guy #2 : The One who Seems to be PERFECT...!

Once you must fall in love with someone you believe to be perfect.

You will learn that.. No one is perfect...
And..

That you should never be treated as any less than you deserve.

Guy #3 : The One Who is EXACTLY LIKE YOU...!

Once you must fall in love with someone.. Who is exactly like you. 

This will teach you about who you are, and who you want to be.

And..

When you're through with all that..

You learn that... 

The people who LOVE/CARE about YOU the MOST.. 

are the ones who are going to HURT you the MOST...!

And.. 

The ones that HURT you.. are the ones whom you NEED the most..
 

But most of all..

You learn that.. 

"Love is only a concept and is not something that can be defined...

It is different to each person that experiences it. 

And you will learn..

To respect each and every person on this earth, knowing that.. everyone only wants to be loved.

"ME"... IS PRETTY AMAZING...! :)

 

Hey you...!
 

Yes, YOU..... 

Stop being unhappy with yourself. You are perfect.
Stop wishing you looked like someone else or wishing people liked you as much as they like someone else. 

Stop trying to get attention from those who hurt you. 

Stop hating yourself, your looks, your personality, your quirks... Just Love them...!
Without those things you wouldn't be you. 

And why would you want to be anyone else...? 

Be confident with who you are.
Smile..... :):):)
It will draw people in. If anyone hates on you because you are happy with yourself... then you stick your middle finger in the air and say screw it, My happines will not depend on others anymore. 

I'm happy because I love who I am. 

I love my flaws. I love my imperfections. 

They make me ME.....! 

And 'ME' is pretty amazing.......! :):):)

REALITY CHECK......!!!

It has been 6 years since we are together...long time.. isn't it...???
He loves me from the core...He is very sweet, everytime we talk...everytime we meet...He is never rude...He never showz attitude...He is never arrogant...He is alwayz loving...caring...benevolent...He never complaintz...He just do as and when I say...He always adores me...He always compliments
me...He understands what I want him to do without even my actions...!!!
He understands my silence...my hidden thoughts in between my heart...my mind and my eyez... He always treats me like a "PRINCESS"...like a beautiful...delicate and lovely "DOLL"...He always addresses me with a cute and sweet adjectivez which makez me feel out of this world...He never
fights with me...He just do what I say...He never questions...He trusts me blindly...basically he is like a "DREAMBOY".......

Yes..... a "DREAMBOY"..................!!!

OMG...diary...?? U slept...?? he he he... ;-) 

Hold on...

U actually think..

Whatever I have written above is true...???

A very big "LOL"...coz in "REALITY" nothing of the above is true...

not even half of it....! :-X

So, I will give u a "REALITY CHECK" diary...! 

What say...???
 

Well.. to be honest whatever is written above is something which I and infact every girl strives for... a "DREAM BOY".......!

Who can love her truly 'n unconditionally 'n can fulfil all of the above wishes..demands and even more...!!!
But the "REALITY" is that "DREAM BOYZ" exist only in "DREAMZ"...

In "REALITY" there exist No Dreamboy...

So we girls.. should actually give ourself a so-called and necessarily required "REALITY CHECK"...

that "NO ONE"...mind it... No One in this world is "PERFECT"...!

Not even we are perfect... 'n neither are we "DREAM-GIRLS"...

So why to keep such high expectationz...??? 

We should try 'n find 'n be with someone who is not a "DREAM BOY" OR "DREAM GIRL"...

But someone who can just complete u...thatz it...!

Negative points, deficiencies, lacks, Imperfection... exist in everyone...!

So..

U just need to ignore them 'n keep your concentration on the positivitive points 'coz friendz...

"LIFE IS TOO SHORT TO WASTE YOUR TIME .... FINDING A PERFECT DREAM BOY/GIRL"

So..
Just love it 'n live it... The way it is...!!!  :):):)